Education
of Children
New ideas in school and education still pushed for new
appointments. The concept of primary school was new and replaced primary and
secondary schools. Compulsory schooling lasted for ten years.
The goal was similar to before, all children and adolescents
should receive education according to their development and abilities. Special
education due to reduced learning ability and social difficulties was now made
clearer in law, and with a special education regulation a few years later, the
right of disabled children to go to school was made clear.
On 1 July 2008, a new primary school law came into force, which aims to create the conditions for the education of children to become a model internationally. Students and parents have a variety of options for study arrangements and the choice of primary schools. The principle is confirmed that primary school education is free of charge. An inclusive school with equal opportunities for study is now bound by law.
There is a clearer provision on the responsibilities, rights,
and obligations of children and parents. Emphasis is placed on strengthening
the assessment and supervision of schoolwork. The aim is to increase parents'
participation in school activities and ensure closer links with school
management and the school community.
The development of school work over a hundred years has been
highlighted here. The main emphasis has been on bringing children to study and
development in school work where equality and equality prevail.
An important area of children's education is the training they
receive from their families. The most important aspect of this training is
related to the behavior of parents, especially mothers, with their children.
Here are some basic points in this regard:
Ethical
training
Children should be accustomed to high morals from an early age
because childhood habits become mature as they grow up, so it is important to
teach them the truth, honesty, bravery, kindness, elders from childhood.
Respect, good treatment of neighbors, respect for the rights of friends and
helping deserving people should be inculcated with high moral qualities, then
they should be strictly protected from bad morals such as lying, stealing,
abusive language and misbehavior Get accustomed to hard work and keep away from
luxury and comfort.
Physical
training
Parents should take care of their children's physical
development, diet, and rest and make them accustomed to exercise. Every effort
should be made to meet physical ailments and legitimate needs.
Contemptuous
behavior:
Instead of showing haste and haste in correcting and training
children, this should be done with patience and perseverance. Avoid insulting
or humiliating children.
Giving
priority to children over each other
Giving preference to two children or one of the boys and girls
in the same household over the other is un-Islamic behavior, which leads to many
psychological disorders and extremism and revenge. Such patient behavior must be avoided.
In addition to these principles
Here are some practical steps that parents can easily follow:
(1) Spend as much time as possible in your family, especially
with your children. Arrange your financial struggles and other activities in
such a way that you must spend some time with your family.
(2) To make children accustomed to hard work and toil, make them
accustomed to moderate quality of life so that they may experience the hard
work of a normal human being.
(3) First of all, out of pocket expenses should be avoided and
such needs of the children should be met by themselves and if out of pocket
expenses are given to the children, then it should be made a matter of
discipline. Children should also be asked to calculate this amount. The habit
of frugality, savings, and avoidance of unnecessary expenses should be
developed and a sense of accountability should be developed from the beginning.
It can be a serious joke with the future, as well as moderation in spending on
their clothes and shoes, as the educational institution has students from
different economic and social backgrounds, thus creating unwanted competition
among them. Can be prevented.
(4) Children should practice self-reliance from the beginning.
Even if financial resources are expanded, children should still be in the habit
of doing their own thing, ie cleaning shoes, tidying the room. To be added
(5) It is also the duty of parents to keep their children
engaged in the service of their elders.
(6)
It is important to know the activities of children and their friends. Crimes
and drug use are the results of bad company, so it is the responsibility of parents
to keep a close eye on their children's friends.
(7) You should not justify your children's mistakes and crimes.
Making children aware of their mistakes and giving them the opportunity to
correct them as soon as possible will make them aware of the requirements of
justice, fairness, and moderation.
(8) It is important to have a balanced attitude towards
television and the Internet. For this, parents have to discipline themselves,
use educational and informational programs, and discuss positive and negative
aspects of good entertainment programs with their children. TV and computer
should be kept in a place where everyone comes and goes so that there is no
possibility of watching nonsensical and immoral programs.
Good books and magazines, which play an extraordinary role in
shaping children's personality, should inculcate the habit of reading in their
children. Parents should provide them with good books and magazines and build a
personal library for them, keep an eye on their curriculum and other books.
Encourage your children to buy books at their own expense.
(9) A sense of responsibility should be inculcated in the
children, so that the country and the nation and humanity may benefit from
their caste. In the present age, everyone is very sensitive about their rights
but becomes ignorant about the performance of their duties. This attitude needs
to change during the educational process.
(10) Children should be made aware of the safety of the public
property. The condition of parks, public transport, roads and government
buildings, etc. in the country is in front of everyone. Everyone is frying at
the loss of it. This is because the concept of national property is not
awakened in society. Islam protects these properties by giving them the concept
of being honest and accountable to Allah.
(11) Children should be inculcated with a sense of social
responsibility. Whether it is school fees, municipal taxes, or income taxes,
parents should set an example for their children in this regard and urge them
to pay their public dues on time. Be done
(12) A better home environment should be established. Parents
should avoid anger and fights, especially in front of children. Interaction
between family adults, respect for each other, and respect for children has a
positive effect on children. Puts.
(13) Contradictions in words and deeds must be avoided. Children
learn a great deal from the actions of their adults in an imperceptible way.
The behavior of parents and other adults shapes the personality of children. No
matter how small or big the issue, and it seems to be a loss, you should keep
your actions right.
(14) Parents usually have high expectations of their children,
but when they do not meet this standard, parents become frustrated and angry
with their children, causing both parents and children to feel inferior and
irritable. This is inappropriate behavior. Children should be encouraged and
rewarded accordingly for their success. Children should also be aware of their
abilities, interests, and weaknesses when setting expectations. Parents should share
their wishes with their children. But should be avoided.
(15) Failure should be trained to be a stepping stone to
success. Every person in life is faced with some other crisis, so it is
necessary to make up the minds of children to cope with unwanted ha. Instead of
escaping from problems. They need to be trained to fight. Strong determination,
perseverance, and hard work are the prerequisites for success. In case of
difficulties, counseling children from time to time also helps in training and
building their self-confidence.
(16) Children should be made aware of the purpose of their life.
A clear vision of the purpose of life will help them to determine their place
in the world.
(17) By setting a time to study at home, parents can lay the
foundation for their children's development by running an educational
institution under their supervision.
(18) Parents should organize and value time themselves and
inculcate in their children the habit of using time wisely from the beginning.
Waste of time is an irreparable loss. The best use of this precious wealth is
the key to success.
(19) Expenditure on education and training is a future
investment. In view of the current high cost of education, it would be
appropriate for each family to spend a certain portion of their monthly income
on the education and training of their children. If so, the remaining money can
be saved and used in the future.
